All individual are affected by the people with whom they interacts the families in which they come from and the social group they belong to. They all develop personal identities primarily and exclusively through family group and people with their social system. In general the process of being human being involves transforming infant to child and child to adult hood with skill, shared meaning value that are appropriate to society and the culture. As result this transformation is acceptance by the individual of a sense of being their self as either mail or female. Also every adult transform themselves as husband and wife through the marriage for their final journey until eternal life. Since marriage is god God's gift. The union of male and female for the purpose of procreation is the natural good of marriage.
Augustine main theology is marriage is sacrament it is singe and symbolized the covenant relationship between Christ and the church. sacramental bond in marriage which is recommended to believers in wedlock. Accordingly to apostle: "Husbands, love their wives, even as Christ also loved the Church." Of this bond the substance undoubtedly is this, that the man and the woman who are joined together in matrimony should remain inseparable as long as they live. One of the strongest proofs of the sanctity of the marriage relation in the sight of God is to be found in the fact that both in the Old and in the New Testaments, it is made the symbol of the relation between God and his people. The very fact that God created man, male and female, declaring that it was not good for either to be alone, and constituted marriage in paradise, should be disregarded therefore without the marriage the purpose of God in regard to our world could not be carried out< ...